I learned a long time ago, and preach to everyone, tell people how you feel about them. You may not ever get another chance. It has nothing to do with being macho or a hard ass; in fact, it takes a hell of a lot of guts to open yourself like that. I've tried to teach it to my sons and daughter. My dad and mom, before they passed away, told me that my doing that with them had actually made it easier for them to express themselves to each other, as well as other people. And know what else? Even though I've only met a few people on here (and those from before the Hellcat even existed) I am immensely fond of all you stupid ass bastards. And stupid ass ladies, too.